This Hurts Me More Than It Hurts You: In Words and Pictures, Children Share How Spanking Hurts and What To Do Instead is not another parenting tome by an ivory-towered theorist. This eye-opening book is written and illustrated by those most affected by spanking — children. Their words and drawings show that spanking doesn’t result in the behaviors parents and teachers desire. Instead, it sows seeds of pain, despair, humiliation, confusion, anger — and the continuation of a cycle of violence.
When you are clear about your feelings, intentions and communicate them clearly, you have a better chance of achieving what you want than if you lose control or allow your unconscious mind to manipulate the situation. Misplaced anger can cause more harm than good. Discussing what you truly believe and feel empowers you and helps […]